I’m a feminist too, and I also like these things!
Nope, it’s not bad at all, and doesn’t make you any less of a feminist. Being a feminist means you believe in fair and equal treatment for everyone, regardless of gender. Having your kinks consensually satisfied isn’t the same as actual oppression. Having your kinks consensually satisfied is fun and awesome! (Whereas oppression is just shitty.)
Sometimes the human brain fetishizes things it finds abhorrent. For some people, this can be a really healthy and cathartic coping strategy. Even though you have a fantasy about being disrespected and having your agency taken away, your agency is not actually being taken away and you are not actually being disrespected if a partner is consensually doing all of these things because you mutually enjoy it. You’re not being forced into anything, you’re allowing yourself to be manhandled/dominated/humiliated/etc because you feel like it. And you’ve got every right in the world to do that with a consenting partner.
So don’t feel any shame about your kinks. In no way does it impact your feminist status.